Today I received an email from Simple Truths with an excerpt of The Strangest Secret by Earl Nightingale and it prompted me to think of the first time I heard the recording of The Strangest Secret. I was still very new to the personal development field, I had been to my first seminar and met an amazing man, Lee A. Haskin, that shared with me the link to the audio. I’ve listened to it soooo many times, I trust you will like it too. Here is the link on Mark Victor Hansen’s website where you need to give your name and email to receive the download link for free. Enjoy!
I was just reading a blog post on BizLaunch and it inspired me to write this post on Success. It’s a subject that I coach people on and it’s always surprising to hear the answers. Usually, we first start by giving a definition of what we think success should be according to how we have been raised.
- Having enough money
- Having a successful business
- Having an expensive car and house in the most prestigious neighbourhood of your city
- Being a CEO or top executive in the company you work for
- Being the best mom or dad you can be to your children
- Being a World Champion in your sport
- Winning a Nobel Prize
- Being a world leader in your field of expertise
- Being a community leader
- Having a business and having fun while sharing your passion
When I looked in the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, success has 3 meaning: degree or measure of succeeding; the attainment of wealth, favor or eminence; favorable or desired outcome. I like when I can to find the root of the word to see what the original meaning was, and in this case success comes from the Latin word successus which means an outcome.
As many people my definition of success was related to money, until I started my journey in the personal development world. I now know that we evolve in many areas at the same time: personal, professional, relationships, spiritual, physical (body), and financial. If I privilege only one of these areas, can I say that I am really successful? For example I can have a very successful business, make very good money with it, but I have been divorced 3 times, I have high blood pressure, high cholesterol and a stiff back. To what extent am I successful? I have privileged 2 areas out of six and as a result I really don’t feel that successful, I feel my life is empty. How can this be? I fit in the criterias I thought represented success in my world!
Let’s come back to the definition of success: an outcome. What is your preferred outcome, your ideal? What if you started shaping your life according to that ideal or outcome? Remember to have as many of the 6 areas as possible in your vision, and you will have a feeling of overall satisfaction when you look at your life.
I have learned this definition of success in Success Puzzle a program created by Bob Proctor: “Success is the progressive realization of a worthy ideal”. It has changed my whole perspective on what is success to ME, the most important person in my life.
Start your own reflection on what YOUR definition of success is, and share it by leaving a comment!